Vibrators
Vibrators Aren’t Just For Solo Adventures! (Sex Ed 101)
Research shows positive influences on sexual health and relationships when vibrators are used among couples, according to an article found on FoxNews. According to this article, "a couple's vibrator use during sex play is common, with about 45 percent of men and 53 percent of women, ages 18 to 60, reporting such. The study focusing on men specifically found that 10 percent had used a vibrator in the last month, while over 14 percent had in the past year and over 20 percent over a year ago."On top of these statistics, the research also shows women who use vibrators are more likely to perform a genital self exam in the past month, as well as have visited a gynecologist in the past year. As far as men go, they were likelier to rate themselves higher when it came to sexual desire, erectile function, intercourse satisfaction and orgasmic function.
You can read the rest of the article for yourself and make your own judgments, but it definitely appears that vibrators promote good sexual health for both men and woman! Has anyone used a vibrator with their partner before or thought about it? Did it "spice up" your sex life, or did you not find a change? Let us know!
Tags: sexual health, intimacy, vibrators
How to Go From Nay to YAY! in the Bedroom (For Dummies) (Sex Ed 101)
This article contains matter of a sexual nature. if you are uncomfortable with topics This sort, I advise you to read a different article. Thank you!
If you're ready to make your sex life more sizzling, but unsure of where to start, everything you need is right here! Whether you're looking to spice things up with your boyfriend, girlfriend, or even just have some fun alone, here is a fun and easy guide to find just what you might be looking for!
Vibrators and Dildos
Vibrators and dildos are a great way to bring something new and fun into your bedroom life, but can also be a lot of fun when you're alone.
The Vibe Me Sensual Pleasure is a great choice for somebody who is a little intimidated by all the gadgets vibrators might have and just wants something plain and simple. It's waterproof and easy to clean, plus it comes in a variety of colors!
If you're looking for something a little more fancy, check out the Rotating G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator! For the price, it's great - including a rotating shaft (to feel more realistic), moving pearls (for hitting your g-spot, and rubbing against your outer and inner vagina), a curved tip (to really hit your g-spot!), plus "rabbit ears" to vibrate and hit your clitoris. Unfortunately, it isn't waterproof... but the Best Buy Butterfly comes highly recommended from a friend of mine. It's waterproof, and you can control the rotation of the shaft, plus the vibration speed for your clitoris.
If you are looking for something to share, the Super Jelly Realistic Double Dildo might be something you want to try. It's realistic and waterproof and can be a good choice if you're both women. The description states that it can even be bent in half and used for vaginal and anal penetration!
Adult Movies
Kick back and put in some porn with your lover! No, really, I'm being completely serious! I won't sit here and recommend videos for you, because that's the fun in it... but the internet works wonders, as do porn shops. Find one that seems interesting, watch it, and see what happens. You can try certain things you saw in the movie, or just watch it to get in the mood. Whatever floats your body, the sky's the limit!
Adult Games
Say you're lucky enough to have the place to yourselves, and you want to try something new. Ever think about a board game? It might not be your usual board game, but there are plenty of fun, new, and interesting ideas for you to try. Spicy Dice have always been a favorite of mine - roll and find out what you're doing, where on their body, and where in the house!
If Spicy Dice don't seem thrilling enough, how about some Romance Roulette? The directions seem simple enough - "Spin the wheel and see where the ball lands…then draw the matching card and let the spicy games begin." Who wouldn't want to give it a whirl?
And then there's the always famous Body Paint. Ever wondered what it would be like to get a tattoo of something? Let your lover be the artist and draw all over your body, then the best part of all - lick it off! This set of body paint comes in 4 delicious flavors... Cherry, Piña Colada, Blueberry and Banana!
Lotions and Lubricants
You can't forget the plain and simple things in your sex life. Lotions and lubricants can certainly spice things up if you venture outside of the plain KY Jelly you pick up at the drugstore.
If you're interested in trying anal sex, you must have lubrication. Check out System Jo H20 Lubricant designed specifically for anal sex. It's water based, long lasting, and created to never feel sticky or tacky. If it's your first time, however, Adam & Eve Anal Easy Lubricant is suggested for it's slight (but rapid) numbing agent. Not only will it slightly numb, it will relax the sphincter, allowing for easier penetration.
The Wet® Together™ His & Hers Lubricant is a fantastic combination for couples... the man's lubricant warms, while the woman's lubricant tingles. Then when you put them togehter - they make magic! These are both water based, so they can be used with sex toys, condoms, and are easy to clean up if there happens to be a spill.
If you want to make oral sex more interesting when you're performing, check out the Good Head Oral Sex Sampler. This gem contains 5 - 1 oz. bottles of flavored lubricants including the following flavors: Wild Cherry, Juicy Passion Fruit, Sweet Strawberry, Mystical Mint and Sexy Cinnamon. The containers are big enough to figure out which ones you like and which ones you don't, but small enough to not feel like you wasted your money if you don't particularly enjoy one or two. Plus, once you find out which ones you are crazy about, you can buy one bigger tube of a single flavor!
More Sexy Things...
Of course, there are plenty of other things that would make me go on and on and write and write, but it's time to close this section of Sex Ed 101. If you aren't particularly crazy about the website I choose for this article (Adam & Eve), you can check out any of websites below:
Or even brave what your parents did when they were young - visit the local porn shop... in person!
Tags: sex, relationships, blow jobs, oral sex, vibrators, porn, lubricants, sexual intercourse, sex toys, dildos
Keep it in the Toy Box! (Sex Ed 101)
embarrassed!, 24 writes...
Ack. Okay, I did a really *stupid* thing today. I was using my waterproof vibe in the shower while all my roommates were out of the house... being the dummy I am, I totally left it on the ledge of the bathtub, and didn't remember until hours and hours later when I went up to go to the bathroom. Now, it's a kind of realistic looking, hot pink vibe. It's noticeable, and I know at least two of them saw it. What am I going to do? How can I face them? What do I say if they ask about it? I am SO embarrassed!
Janet says...
Look, they're probably at least a little bit embarrassed too. In fact, the best thing to do is probably to do NOTHING. I know, as a woman you probably want to gush openly about your embarrassment, but this is one of those situations where the best reaction is to do nothing unless one of them approaches you. I doubt you're the only one in that house that masturbates and assuming that your roommates are about the same age as you I'm betting they've got vibrators too. At best they probably blushed a little and giggled. But they probably get it. Now move on and just don't talk about it!
Tags: masturbation, sex ed 101, vibrators, roommates