Self Confidence
The Ultimate Guide On How To Love Yourself Before Your Crush (Crush Zone)
We all know you girls ( and guys ! ) sometimes feel really down about your body, but have no fear ! This article is here to give you advice on how to look and feel your best while raising your self esteem. It is important for us all to have confidence and to not be heavily depressed about how we look so this guide will be perfect to helping you feel happy about yourself !
Playing About With Words
It sounds ridiculous, but repeating to yourself everytime you look in the mirror or think about your body, " I look great. My body is great and i am completely content with it. " will help your mind to believe that. In theory, you shall eventually have convinced yourself of this so whenever you're thinking negatively about your figure, you will be reminded of it.
Nobody's Perfect ; We All Gotta Work It
Jennifer aged 20 from Illinois said "I love and accept myself because there is no other way that I am supposed to be." She has set a perfect example for all girls over the globe - your creator made you what you are for a reason. You need to accept your body because that is the way it is and that is the way you were born. Nobody is perfect and we have to flaunt and make the best of what we have.
You Can't Mistake My Biology
Tiffany from Canada says that when she looks in the mirror, all she can see is no boobs and a big butt. If you are an adolescent, like me, your bodies haven't fully developed yet. They continue to adjust throughout our teenage lives, unfortunately ! Everybody grows at different stages so if your friends have big boobs and a slim body, don't feel worried ! You are normal and you AREN'T ugly at all, by any means. You have to deal with the major changes in a confident way. If you are well past that age range now then you also need to accept your body for what it is and understand that it is still undergoing adjustments.
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Not Feeling Good Enough (Big Sister)
Liza, 18 writes...
Hey Ivette. I'm wondering if you've ever felt like you weren't attractive enough or good enough for whatever you've wanted to accomplish. If so, how did you deal with it? I guess at some point everyone breaks out of a shell and starts thinking that it's incredibly irrational and limiting to be so easily convinced of not being good enough. I don't know. I though I'd broken out of this shell, but this feeling haunts me whenever I get rejected by a guy (this has happened with every guy I've ever liked). I'm starting to lose hold on how to deal with it.Ivette says...
I think it's a fairly normal feeling that everyone goes through, especially when you're being a teenager and trying to discover your identity. There was a point in time where sometimes I felt like that, and even then I do get the similar feelings from time to time. What's gotten me to get better at it, it's to just have faith in myself and think positively. If things don't work out, I try to think that there's a good reason they didn't happen and that it was for the best of my future that they didn't. There's a reason why you didn't end up with the guys you like. Maybe there's a better guy out there waiting for you, don't think it's your loss, it's theirs. As you get to know yourself more, you will learn how to appreciate all the little quirks and faults that you have and embrace them. There's a guy out there for you, and he will fall in love with those same little flaws that make up you. My best advice is to take things lightly if a guy rejects you, whatever, there will be a plenty of other guys who come around. You're more worth than you realize and recognize that first so others can see it too
! Good luck! Tags: advice, relationships, big sister, tips, rejection, self confidence, puberty, low self esteem, attractiveness, not good enough