Men
Teenage Sexuality (Sex Ed 101)
Wondering..., 18 writes...
Alright, so, I'll just start off straight-forward. I'm straight, as in I would never get emotionally involved with another girl, but if I'm already turned on, then I'm not attracted to guys at all. Girls don't turn me on unless I'm already horny, and I've told my boyfriend this, but he tries to turn me on anyway. I've told him this several times, but I'm not sure why it isn't getting in his head. Is it just the male ego making it hard for him to understand? It isn't uncomfortable or anything, but I don't want to hurt his feelings in telling him that I'm not wet. What should I do?Brittany says...
Your boyfriend probably doesn't understand why you aren't attracted to men after you're already turned on, yet you cannot get a woman to turn you on in the first place. I'll admit, I'm a little perplexed at your situation. Aside from that, if your boyfriend cannot turn you on and you're not attracted to him, why are you dating him? But what I'd do is flat out tell your boyfriend the whole deal and it'll probably hurt his feelings, but you need to be honest. The hardest thing will be to make the relationship continue to work afterwards, but I'm not quite sure what to advise you since you didn't really ask a question pertaining to that aspect of your relationship... Good luck!
Tags: boyfriends, sexuality, attraction, women, girlfriends, heterosexual, straight, men