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So, never having had a relationship before, I don't really know what to do. The girl I'm dating has had lots of experience and always has to initiate everything, because I don't know what there IS to do. So my questions is this: how can two girls interact romantically? Not going to far as to having sex or anything like that, but what comes after kissing?ImNew@This | age 18 | October 29, 2009
Brittany says...
Considering I've never been in a relationship with a woman, I'm going to toss this one out to the readers - if you are a woman and have been in a relationship with another woman, care to share your thoughts?
Personally, I'd think a relationship with a woman is the same as having a relationship with a man. You can kiss, you can have oral sex, you can partake in mutual masturbation, and you can have sex. Some people like to think of it in terms of bases, such as you start off as kissing, then first would be going up the shirt, second would be using your hands to pleasure the other person, third would be oral sex, and home would be having actual sex.
It's all up to you and what you're ready for. Talk to your partner and tell her your concerns, I'm sure she'd be more than happy to help you out. I find that most relationships for myself are kind of "go with the flow" and less "oh my God, what comes next!?"
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Published on October 29, 2009 by Brittany | Read all recent Sex Ed 101 articles.