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Is Pain Normal?
So, hopefully this isn't a stupid question. The other day things got heavy with my boyfriend and he ended up fingering me. It ended up hurting and I was a little sore afterwards. Is this normal? He is bit older than me and had several other girlfriends before me, so I'm pretty sure he knew what he was doing. Thanks.Sore | age 19 | March 6, 2010
JamieG says...
It's not a stupid question. There are two main possibilities I see for your situation: a lack of proper lubrication, or you not being relaxed enough. Either one of those can cause penetration (whether by fingers, penis, or anything else) to be uncomfortable. I suggest next time adding some lube into the equation, and seeing if that solves the problem.Published on March 7, 2010 by JamieG | Read all recent Sex Ed 101 articles.