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He Hurt My Feelings, Now He’s Hurt

So about a year ago I confessed to the guy I liked at the....that I liked him. We went our separate ways and fell out of touch because he didn't like me, and I went off to college. He's had two girlfriends since then, I haven't had any boyfriends. I've seen him once since I've been back home for the summer. Last night I dreamed that he sent me a really long message on Facebook apologizing for the way he rejected me. He apologized profusely for the way he hurt my feelings and the way he just altogether stopped talking to me. He went even further to say that I'm really cute, but I don't remember what that statement led to in the message in this dream. I woke up at about 4, then went back to sleep. When I fell asleep this time I dreamed that I was having sex with him in my house. He was performing oral sex while I just laid there. I remember feeling that I absolutely hated him, which in waking life...I don't. After sex, he attempted to run me over with a truck. He hit me, but I wasn't hurt. To my surprise, he came out of the accident very badly injured. Ideas?

leelove | age 18 | July 19, 2010

Embarr says...

The first dream is likely a reflection of some desire you hold. Even if your feelings have changed for this guy, you could still have a bit of unfinished business with him. Having a dream where he apologizes puts your wish for some kind of closure in your favor more prominently in your thoughts. This desire could be for another similar situation, or it could still be for the situation between you and this guy.

In the second dream it is more likely that the guy in the dream should be looked at more symbolically than literally. Taking a step back from the situation, what's essentially happening is that you are receiving pleasure from something that you absolutely hate. The fact that the figure is this guy may have been a result of your first dream influencing your second dream or he could be another piece of the puzzle. Subconsciously, while you may not hate him, you could be showing more of your hate of rejection. In this case, it would be confusing for you to be recieving pleasure while hating the person/object that you hate in your waking life so it's more likely that while whatever it is, is attempting to please you and give you pleasure it is only getting strong, negatice feelings from you. 

The part of the dream where he hits you with a car but comes out injured instead of you could be linked to the first half of the dream. It seems to say that actions against you are hurting the attacker instead, basically. Even as you seem to take blows, it's not you that's going to be hurt in the end. Whether or not this has a connection with the first half of the dream or even the first dream, is up to you to consider. Your dreams could be circling around a single issue, or they could cover a number of issues.

Tags: oral sex, sweet dreams, rejection, dream, guy, injured

Published on July 20, 2010 by Embarr | Read all recent Sweet Dreams articles.