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French Kissing
Hi, I'm really confused and was hoping you could help me. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months. We're very close and this is both our first serious relationship. Because neither one of us usually know what we're doing when it comes to making out, etc.. we sort of make it up as we go along. But recently he's been joking around and sticking his tongue in my mouth. It's not like this freaks me out or anything, I don't really care, considering how close we are. He told me, though, he wants to try french kissing. I really don't know what to do though. He'll joke around and stick his tongue in my mouth and then laugh and say "Oh c'mon, you do it." I know I said before that we just make it up as we go along but I really don't know what to do. Imagining sticking my tongue out while kissing just seems absurd to me. It seems like it would make my mouth feel... weird. I don't really want to but I guess he's really curious as to knowing what it's like... I'm just really trying to figure out what to do about this. Thanks so much for the help.x0klly0x | age 14 | November 23, 2009
Ivette says...
You should really check this out! Purplepjs has a great article about kissing. It's good you feel comfortable with your boyfriend and can disscuss anything and even be silly about it. I would say to follow the tips in the link. The first time might not be perfect but with practice things will get much better! Good luck!
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Published on November 23, 2009 by Ivette | Read all recent Big Sister articles.